This quote is something I think every woman needs to hear. Sometimes I think we subliminally feel like we are in a competition with others. Each season of our lives yields yet a different type of goal that we feel we need to meet before everyone else. (or at least I feel this has been true for me especially in certain seasons of my life)
Let's look back to what we were (maybe) comparing ourselves with others to in high school....maybe it was grades, what colleges we were getting into, if we were dating, who we were dating, ect.
Then there was college. I went to a Christian college, so my experience may be very different than yours, but- around my junior year it became engagement. Who was getting engaged first, when you were getting married, who had a bigger diamond, who is going the have a fancier wedding, the list goes on...
Now there is today. The after-marriage life. The same struggles exist that always did for myself as a women. (wanting a better body, better clothes, nicer things) but there are a new list of things that come with this era of your life. HOUSES, CARS, BABIES, and the list goes on. There are so many things that can steal your joy IF you let comparison rule your life. You may have found yourself looking at your life compared to the girls around you and saying"why isn't that me!!!???" BUT this isn't how we are called to live. We must remember that we should be content with what God HAS done in our lives and try to appreciate where we are at in life.
Philippians 4: 11-12
Not that I speak from want; for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need.
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By content I do not mean accept things that you can change. I am saying do the best with the cards you have been dealt and thank God for what he HAS blessed you with.
Okay, now as for your hopes for the future....realize that there is a time as a place for everything. Check out
Ecclesiastes 3:1-15 for more about that. I can already hear some of you ladies saying "what about babies, and the house I want and, and, and" and I can say that I can relate to some of those cries. I can also say that God has a plan. There is a right timing for these things. Wait on Him and let's work on being content and enjoying the life that we are living today. Comparison will only steal your joy, don't let it! You have a life to enjoy today.